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What are the secrets of attraction? This is a brief article on what attracts women and some of the secrets that not many people pay attention to.Attraction not only pertains to physical attributes but non-physical as well. Here are 2 things to keep in mind when wanting to attract girls successfully. 

Have a lot of energy! To attract women you must have a fun loving attitude to you, which means to have a lot of good energy.girls favor guys who know how to have fun.  Bringing energy to a party while staying optimistic and positive is a great way to grab the attention of women.    

Be funny. This is a great way to show your energy and positive attitude.No woman can resist a good laugh, who would want to?A man who can make a woman laugh is surely on the right direction in terms of sparking attraction.What attracts women? Energy and laughter.  
Guys, remember that laughing along with you is wholly different than a girl laughing at you. While there are some instances where a girl laughing at you CAN be cute in her eyes, lets not make it a habit. For the most part you want the girl to be laughing with you. Let’s be serious, taking things seriously is going to make you look like their old high school principle and if you went to a school anything like in my town then you’ll know that that is not a good quality.So try to not take the small stuff so seriously and be a fun guy to be around.  Quite honestly, you’ll have more of a fun time yourself if you learn to keep the mood light and happy.  So remember say outgoing and crazy things to her to lighten the mood (there is a balance between teasing and obnoxious but I take it that you know the difference with those two).   

One last thing I’d like to mention before we finish up this brief lesson on what attracts women is to stay honest.Women can sense these things for the most part and even if you know some sort of technique to hide dishonest and get away with it, don’t do it.Don’t fake life.  By being honest it’ll gloss through that you accept yourself and are proud of who you truly are.  Now of course we all want to put our best foot forward, embellishing and advertising yourself as best you can isn’t wrong, all I am saying is you should be proud of who you are.

Attraction is different for girls than it is for guys.  As this article lays out, there are many things that attracts women which men probably wouldn’t really be searching for. But that’s what makes women and the challenge that much more appealing.  Now you know some things that attract women, take these tips and apply them to your love status.  Women usually are the first people to recognize a change for the better in you, which in turn will BE better for you when attracting attractive women as women love ambition and forward progress.

Want to know how to attract girls? Well, its not all about looks and style.  Before all the clothing advice and cologne choices, you first must understand that attraction not only is in the eye of the beholder but is something that radiates stronger than the naked eye.  If you want to know how to attract girls then you have to know what attracts them on a non-physical plane as well.  I won’t deny that looks have anything to do with attracting women but it is just as equally important to focus on the non-physical aspects of attractions…

Knowing how to attract girls starts with your inner self.  Sure there are tips and pointers that experts can help you when wanting to attract women, but all that won’t matter if you don’t have the confidence in yourself to attract women.  You are just wasting your time if you don’t believe in yourself that you CAN in fact attract girls.  When people talk about being an alpha male, a main difference between an alpha male and a beta male is that an alpha male knows deep inside that he is in fact an alpha male.  Having this type of confidence on the inside is something that shouldn’t be ignored.  It has to be cultured for you to believe so and gain the confidence needed on the inside in order for it to shine through on the outside.

Along with being confident it is also important to be an optimist.  That doesn’t mean to not be a realist but nobody likes a ‘debbie downer’.  If you want to look more attractive to women then be someone who is looking at the attractive side of life.  Your attitude is going to reflect how your day goes.  If you are confident and believe that your are going to attract women at a bar, this is going to give you ten times more chances of attracting women at a bar.  In addition, women don’t like to hang around people who don’t make them feel good, so having a pessimistic attitude is going to lessen your chances of attracting women. 

As you become more confident in yourself, naturally you’ll become more of an optimist.  You’re positive attitude is going to draw more people to you, some of which are going to be women.  Women are drawn to guys who look like to be a fun person to be around and are most attracted to those men.  So commit to stay happy and have fun whenever you go out to social events. 

Having fun with people works if you are truthfully interested in what they have to say. Be interested and listen.  Be sure to have fun with everyone around you and not just women and by having fun a part of that means to listen to people and be genuinely interested.  In a matter of a few minutes women are going to pick up on this and want to see what you’re all about.Having a good reputation can go along way as women will hear about all the good things people have to say about you.  This is going to make you more attractive in the eyes of girls. Knowing how to attract girls is knowing how to act when having a conversation them.  Stay humble and don’t let this newfound attraction to women get to your head.  Stay calm and cool like you expected this.  One thing women do not find attractive is someone who talks about himself all the time and has a sense of conceitedness to them. 

The last pointer I want to give when knowing how to attract girls is to be funny.  You can get women to open up to you and be more interested in you if you can her to laugh.  Girls love a man who can get them to laugh.  If you typically aren’t that funny I suggest you read up on a few books focused on how to be funny.

These tips will undoubtedly help you attract women.  Knowing how to attract girls comes from both a physical and non-physical aspect and the fact that you know that already gives you an advantage over other guys.  Undoubtedly there are many more tips to learn when wanting to attract women but this is a great way to start and get your mind set right for more advanced tips.If there is one thing to remember it is to remember that knowing how to attract girls starts with your ‘inner game’.