First, you must quite worrying about what women feel about you and focus on what you need instead. It is a waste of effort and a self-esteem killer to examine everything a girl says and does trying to find out if she is interested. Who cares? Decide what you desire and go for it. When you do, you will find that a lot of women are attracted to this type of confidence and they will want to be around you more.

The second thing is to speak to everyone, including girls you would never date and even guys whom you have never met. If you wait to get your guts up only when you meet a women you are truly attracted to, you can be assured that the ’now or never’ is going to reduce you to a realsneaker-breath. Then again, if you talk to everyone you see you’ll keep your conversation skills up to par and you are sure to be ready when your preferred date shows up.

Third, focus on asking her questions and encouraging her to talk about topics which she likes to talk about. You see, people are more interested in you if you are interested in what they have to say than if you are trying to be interesting to them. In addition, getting her to talk about what she is interested in as opposed to talking about herself will help her to feel comfortable. After all, if you just met her you don’t want to get too personal until you are both ready.

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Fourth, tell a story and make it interesting and even humorous. People love stories and they LOVE to laugh and if you have a story prepared you can be for sure that she is going to be interested in it. Just be certain that you have warmed her up a bit first and that the story you tell her has something to do with the subject you are already discussing. You can have a few stories ready in advance and make a transition such as: “Hey, that reminds me of…” Then tell the story with excitement and see what effect it has on her.

Fifth, get close to her and demonstrate to her that you are at ease with being near her. This means that you initiate physical contact from the getgo, like a light touch on the arm as you are talking about something. This may seem slightly uncomfortable and you may want to practice it with some people you already know first. However, touch is a certain indicator of interest and a great way to get a woman’s attention.

Sixth, laugh at her jokes and get excited about what she is saying to you. This is best accomplished by body language rather than words and will come off more genuine than if you merely verbalized it. What you need to know in relation to women is that they are more feeling oriented than guys are and will respond to you showing them a good degree of excitement. It will also get them to talk more and will encourage you both to be at ease.

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Seventh, be a the alpha male and let her worry about what she thinks of it. This does not mean that you are mean, it means that you show your position as the alpha male. Women are much more willing to forgive a guys mistakes if he demonstrates to her that he is ok with them. Many men make the mistake of being ‘nice’ and bending over backwards to please a girl. It is a better idea to show her that you are a confident man who can defend her when she needs it.

Finally, if you are interested in her then ask for the next meeting as opposed to the digits. Think about it, you just met her this woman and you know that you are interested. Why waste your time with the phone number when you can just request the date? Trust me, either way she is going to see that you are attracted to her so you might as well show that you are not afraid to go after what you want. Remember, boldness and certainty is a thing which girls find good in a man. Once you have a date set, ask for her digits so that you can get a hold of her in case something changes.
So apply yourself to practicing these eight principles one by one until they become a habit you will get many more options when it comes to going out with women. Then you can be with the women who you really want to as opposed to having to sit around and settle for what comes to you. Have fun.

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